As a spirit, you can reject a specific healer, but by doing so, you will remain in the Circle waiting for another person to perform the Resurrection. Due to being unable to interact with the living people around, you are unable to name a requested person, so you may have to take the next person.

The rejected healer will be aware that the spirit is refusing their guidance but will not know for whom the spirit is waiting for. If you as a spirit want to be Resurrected by a specific person, this is something you should have readily stated to your allies while you are living so that knowledge is out there, that way, the specified individual can be fetched upon your death.

Generally, a spirit will go to the closest Greater Earth Circle of Power for Resurrection but can choose to go to another Circle than the closest one to them if the closest one is deemed hostile. Once Resurrected, you will not know that your spirit chose a different Circle due to it deciding a Circle was hostile. “Hostility” is open to interpretation to you as a spirit and can be defined as enemies in town or enemies near the Circle. As the spirit moves towards what they think is a safe Circle, they can change their mind based on what they see around them and deem it hostile and move to the next closest Greater Earth Circle.

If you choose to Resurrect in a Circle that is OOG, you still need to make sure your death is recorded by a plot or logistics member. They will decide if you need to stay OOG in your white headband for the rest of the game, or just for a length of time equivalent to the travel time from that Circle and your current location.